Cover of The Sport You Need by Andrew Pace

Book 01 · English edition

The Sport You Need

Choose the discipline that confronts your fears and trains what you lack

Fear rarely stops you from playing. It makes you play smaller. This book turns sport into a training ground for the behaviors pressure shrinks.

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Also in French: Le sport qui te manqueView on Goodreads

About the book

This book is for…

A book about using sport as a training ground for behaviors that pressure tends to shrink. It examines fear, comparison, visibility, loss, control and the difference between choosing a sport because it already suits you and choosing an environment that develops what you lack.

  • The moment your game tightens

    Your serve works for an hour, then shrinks at 5-4. You are still playing — just smaller, safer, more careful.

  • Choosing a sport, or coming back to one

    You want the next sport you choose to train something specific, not just to feel comfortable.

  • Being watched, compared or ranked

    Visibility, rankings and other people’s results change how you move and decide.

  • Being the least skilled person in the room

    You avoid the class, the club or the group where you would start at the bottom.

  • Coming back after a setback

    You return after a break or a failure, but expect to start from your old level.

  • Deciding before you are certain

    You wait for certainty before acting, and the moment passes.

What it explores

Five parts, in the order you will meet them.

Part I

The Method

Find one scene, then choose a room that repeats it often enough, safely enough, and clearly enough to train.

  1. Introduction: The Sport You Need
  2. 1Find Your Scene
  3. 2Choose a Training Ground, Test It, Know When to Change

Part II

When People Are Watching

What happens to your behavior when others can see the result.

  1. 3Be Seen Without Shrinking
  2. 4Compare Yourself Without Letting the Ranking Define You
  3. 5Lose Without Losing Yourself

Part III

When the Stakes Rise

Harder rooms, tighter moments, and people who start to depend on you.

  1. 6Enter a Room Where You Are the Least Skilled
  2. 7Act When Everything Tightens
  3. 8Let Other People Depend on You

Part IV

When Nothing Is Certain

Moving forward without certainty, control, or your previous level.

  1. 9Decide Before You Are Certain
  2. 10Move Forward Without Controlling Everything
  3. 11Come Back Without Starting From Zero

Part V

When Nobody Is Watching

Work that continues after the audience and the visible progress are gone.

  1. 12Keep Working When Progress Becomes Invisible
  2. 13Trust Without Checking Everything
  3. 14Be Essential Without Being the Center

Key questions

Questions this book helps answer

  • How can sport train a behavior that pressure makes smaller?
  • How do you choose an environment that challenges you without becoming unsafe?
  • What can you learn from being watched, ranked, uncertain or the least skilled person in the room?

Inside the book

In the author’s words

That day did not teach me that I had forgotten how to serve. It taught me that a familiar action could become smaller at the exact moment I needed it most.

From the Introduction

Sport offers something more concrete: it makes certain behaviors difficult to hide.

From the Introduction

Also inside

  • One six-session experiment, run on one pattern at a time
  • Appendix: The Twelve Field Sheets
  • References and Source Notes

The protocols in these pages are training tools, not treatment.

From the book’s opening pages
Cover of The Sport You Need by Andrew Pace

Get the book

Read The Sport You Need

Use sport to train what fear and pressure make smaller: being seen, losing, deciding, starting again.

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Paperback118 pagesISBN 979-8-17151-783-0Checkout on Amazon.com

Choosing

Which book should I start with?

Each book stands on its own. Pick the one closest to the decision in front of you.

Book 01

The Sport You Need

Start here if
Pressure is making you play smaller, or you are choosing a sport and want it to train something.
Written for
Athletes and adults, in any sport, at any level
Built around
One six-session experiment and twelve field sheets

You are reading about this book

Book 03

When Sports Get Serious

Start here if
Sport is reshaping school, money, sleep or family plans — or U.S. college recruiting is on the table.
Written for
Serious young athletes and their families
Built around
Decision tools, a start-of-season meeting and a one-page decision map
Discover the book: When Sports Get Serious

About the author

Andrew Pace, from the athlete’s side

Andrew Pace grew up in competitive tennis in France before entering the U.S. college sports system. His books draw on that first-hand experience from the athlete’s side.

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